Your trading has a lot of nuances; those small or seemingly insignificant behaviors that in the final analysis make big differences. Consider the documentation process. Firstly, let’s acknowledge that it is critical to measure and keep a scorecard for your trades. If you are not measuring and memorializing your trades you’ve got some bigger issues; but if you are tracking your mechanical and internal data, then this missive is for you. Yes, recording your process is a critical cog to successful planning and follow-through; and you must consider many questions using the concept of appreciate inquiry to effect this progression. The topic of these questions revolve around the plan analysis, time frames, indicators, moving averages, strategies, odds enhancers, etc..

Questions that orbit around these chart components provide the information that is then reduced to its common denominator by drilling down and identifying the cause and any other variable that affected the outcome. This type of sifting through the trade to identify how the interplay between what you are doing and what the price action is doing brings to the surface how that relationship is either working for you, or not. But, it’s not just what you are asking; it is “how” you are asking as well. Too often traders will take the position of task master, cracking the whip like a Simon Legree (the main villain in the classic anti-slavery novel “Uncle Tom’s Cabin”). This approach uses language in talking to and about you that is often totally inappropriate, incendiary, highly offensive and quite hurtful. Actually, you may not be aware of using these self-hatred filled, vile spewing diatribes that if you used them in another context to anyone else might cause violence. Insults like stupid, idiot, loser, poor excuse for a human, unworthy, dumb as a rock, and these are some of the better ones, seep into your internal conversation like poisonous vapors through the cracks in a wall. Going further, there are accounts of traders that have gotten so angry with themselves that they have assaulted their person by slapping or hitting themselves in the head hard enough to leave marks. For some of you this may sound incredulous, but many of you are well aware of these behaviors and you have an idea of how debilitating they can be to your performance.

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So, this brings us to the more supportive and constructive way to use introspection and self-reflection while conducting an investigation into your performance, appreciative inquiry. First, you must treat yourself with the same respect that you would a revered person in your life. You are deserving of love, support and respect as all human beings are. Additionally, when you beat yourself up and create a caustic internal environment it serves to greatly increase your stress levels, increase your blood pressure, distract you from what is most important, introduce conflict, take you out of alignment and greatly deteriorate your performance. You may think that you deserve to be verbally, if not physically beaten; but this type of retribution is counteractive and spawns the very results that you are aiming to avoid.

Secondly, respectful investigation or appreciative inquiry is much more effective in uncovering the facts about your process. Not only is it gentler, which your system will respond to with an uptake in openness and consequently with greater information; this approach is also more effective because it fosters questions that are actually more incisive and probing. The questions tend to be well thought out and, accordingly, are likely to specifically address the issues at play, especially those with unconscious themes.

Thirdly, when you are frustrated, frazzled and fragmented with either your performance or the results that you’re getting, you are less likely to seek or accept the facts of the trade and subsequently you are less likely to resonate with reality. This means that rather than aiming to identify where and how you violated rules, you are more likely to place blame on other aspects of the trade; for example the strategy, the market, the broadcast talking heads, etc.. It is of utmost importance to gather “all” the facts and deal with each glitch, transgression or issue on the merits as they present themselves. You will not only get to the bottom of the problem faster but as well the resolution, which is ultimately what you want most.

Free Trading WorkshopAppreciative Inquiry as a term is used by, among others, David L. Cooperrider and Diana Whitney in their book A Positive Revolution in Change: Appreciative Inquiry. It involves the art and practice of asking questions that strengthen a system’s capacity to apprehend, anticipate, and heighten positive potential.[1} In its inception, Appreciative Inquiry was initiated to address company systems with large numbers of people; but at its core the principles of imagination, innovation and the use of positive proactivity in relation to systemic issues are just as relevant when using them to address you and your trading system. It is about using questions to investigate, examine, consider and value your assets, unexplored potentials, elevated thoughts and uncharted unconscious resources to bear on supporting you in positive and effective change works.

So, when investigating your planning, rule maintenance and commitment keeping, do so in a way that honors, appreciates, values and respects your achievements, wisdom, insights, competencies and capacities as you look for ways to improve your trading process. Avoid the insidious seduction of hateful, angry outbursts directed at yourself by stopping as soon as the awareness hits that you are descending into this abyss and redirecting your thoughts and questions to a positive proactivity designed to bring out your best. This is what we teach in “Mastering the Mental Game” online and on-location courses. Ask your Online Trading Academy representative for more information. Also, get my book, From Pain to Profit: Secrets of the Peak Performance Trader.


 

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EUR/USD consolidates around 1.0900, bullish bias remains ahead of key US data

EUR/USD consolidates around 1.0900, bullish bias remains ahead of key US data

The EUR/USD pair is seen consolidating its strong gains registered over the past two days and oscillating in a narrow band during the Asian session on Tuesday. Spot prices currently trade around the 1.1900 mark, just below an over one-week high touched the previous day.

GBP/USD tilts bullish as markets barrel toward mid-week NFP print

GBP/USD tilts bullish as markets barrel toward mid-week NFP print

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USD/JPY slumps below 156.00 as Japanese Yen strengthens after Takaichi's landslide victory

USD/JPY slumps below 156.00 as Japanese Yen strengthens after Takaichi's landslide victory

The USD/JPY pair tumbles to near 155.90 during the early Asian session on Tuesday. The Japanese Yen strengthens against the US Dollar after Japanese Prime Minister Sanae Takaichi led the ruling Liberal Democratic Party to a historic landslide win. Traders braced for key US economic data that could offer more clues on the Federal Reserve's monetary policy.


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AUD/USD taps three-year highs on broad US Dollar weakness

AUD/USD taps three-year highs on broad US Dollar weakness

AUD/USD is trading near three-year highs after a strong break above the 0.7000 psychological level for the first time since February 2023, supported by the Reserve Bank of Australia's surprise 25 basis point rate hike to 3.85% at its February meeting. The daily chart shows the pair in a well-defined uptrend, holding above both the 50-day Exponential Moving Average near 0.6970 and the 200-day EMA around 0.6700.

Gold falls below $5,050 as traders await US jobs data

Gold falls below $5,050 as traders await US jobs data

Gold price attracts some sellers near $5,035 during the early Asian session on Tuesday. The precious metal edges lower amid improved risk sentiment and some profit-taking. Traders brace for key US economic data later this week, including delayed employment and inflation reports. 

USD/JPY slumps below 156.00 as Japanese Yen strengthens after Takaichi's landslide victory

USD/JPY slumps below 156.00 as Japanese Yen strengthens after Takaichi's landslide victory

The USD/JPY pair tumbles to near 155.90 during the early Asian session on Tuesday. The Japanese Yen strengthens against the US Dollar after Japanese Prime Minister Sanae Takaichi led the ruling Liberal Democratic Party to a historic landslide win. Traders braced for key US economic data that could offer more clues on the Federal Reserve's monetary policy.

Litecoin eyes $50 as heavy losses weigh on investors

Litecoin eyes $50 as heavy losses weigh on investors

Following a strong downtrend across the crypto market over the past week, Litecoin holders are under immense pressure. The Bitcoin fork has trimmed about $1.81 billion from its market capitalization since the beginning of the year, sending it below the top 20 cryptos by market cap.

The market is buying everything again but is it dancing on a borrowed floor

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